Girls Pee, Too

By: Shirley Kasser

“You just need to get some adult diapers.”

Huh? Seriously? Before the advent of the She-P, such was the extent of the advice to female technical divers facing longer and/or colder dives who didn’t want to, or just couldn’t, hold it. Like many others, I had no desire to stew in my own juices, so to speak. In addition, I had my doubts about the capacity of those things. I pee a lot. Listening to the guys complain about their cath removal woes garnered zero sympathies from me. At least they could go!

What’s a girl to do?

While still diving wet, I began to do some research. Some products on the market for female hikers looked like possibilities, with some modifications. The solution seemed to be just there, dangling off into the middle distance. Yeah, I said “dangling.” Feel free to snicker.

Then, out of the blue, well… out of some wonderful Dutch folks, came a new term to our tech diving vocabulary, “She-P.” Looking a bit like a tubby black stingray after a trip to the country buffet, this little gizmo was the answer to all of those cross-legged, wiggling-dance prayers. My order for a new drysuit was placed on the same day as my order for one of these beautiful new pieces of art.

Having read lots of advice from the inventors and their then soon-to-be North American distributor, Laura, online, I was ready when the package arrived. I’d already installed my p-valve and completed the necessary landscaping. It was time to pee!

Let’s talk “landscaping”

Now, let’s not skim over that landscaping bit. This device covers a wide swath of your girly bits. Do you think waxing sounds painful? Try ripping off a nicely glued She-P without having done the necessary hair removal preparation. Paramedics may be required. Have fun explaining things to them.

Shaving, and the stubbly regrowth, is nearly as bad as diving in a wet diaper. Waxing leaves a nice result, but if you’re diving a lot, the needed regrowth of hair before being able to wax again leaves much to be desired (refer to the previous paramedic’s note). Laser hair removal is the trick. It’s expensive but worth every single curly-hair-removing penny.

On to arts and crafts

With landscaping done and p-valve installed, we are ready for arts and crafts time. Get out the glue. There are multiple types of glue available, and some fairly detailed videos, so we aren’t going deep into detail here. However, like anything you want to be good at, you have to practice. Glue that baby on and slug down a Big Gulp. Depending on where you live, go outside and pee on a tree. Write your name in the snow. Or, if you live in the city, you might just want to practice in the shower.

Tips + Tricks

Be patient with the gluing process. It takes practice and is no place for shyness about your body. The spray adhesive works, but I’ve found that the brush-on glue allows for easier repositioning when I miss. Did I mention, be patient? Ask questions, but ultimately, you have to experiment to find the right positioning for your body. Once it’s properly glued in place, I often forget it’s there. It warms up and becomes a part of me. It’s best to get glued up before heading to the boat or dive sites, but I’ve successfully glued up standing in the corner of a truck door. Practice makes perfect. Complacency and hurrying make for leaks. Don’t rush this bit.

Attaching the she-p to your drysuit

This beauty attaches to a standard p-valve with no modifications required. A barbed fitting or quick disconnect work great. The choice is yours. Most kits come with tubing for you to cut to size. Keep in mind, you’ll be peeing out of that tube whenever you’re not suited up, so make it long enough to comfortably hit your target and connect into your p-valve. A bonus is that you can now use the urinal in the port-a-potties instead of having to drop trou and hover above that disgusting seat.

But wait, there’s more!

Really need to pee but do not want to go to the marine head after that burrito-eating beer-drinking buddy has just had his morning constitutional down there? She-P makes peeing over the rail or into a bottle a breeze! Hiking the woods searching for that one special cave? Take a spot at a tree next to the guys without having to come out of your suit. The world is now your urinal.

WARNING: This device has been known to turn middle-aged professional women into 6-year-old boys, considering anything and everything a potential target for their new skill. You have been warned.

Have fun. Be patient with yourself. Ask questions. Keep trying. And DIVE DIVE DIVE!

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6 replies
  1. Brrrandi
    Brrrandi says:

    Shirley, I couldn’t stop laughing… and smiling with hope. So – SO – many times I’ve been envious of the boatload of male co-workers making good use of the rail while I sorrowfully hoped I could hold it until we got back to dock (some of our work vessels don’t have heads, unfortunately). You gave me hope. Now, to google “laser hair removal…” Is this a tax-deductible expense, do you think? 😉

  2. Danny Dutra
    Danny Dutra says:

    Shirley, congratulations on your article! I’ve been using this device for almost five years. It is really amazing all the freedom it gives to us, girls. I’ve convinced two of my cave divers friends to try and they loved it too. It isn’t popular here in Brazil at all! Practice really makes the difference. In the beginning it took me hours to place it correctly, now I need only a few minutes and a private ‘”room”!

  3. Brie
    Brie says:

    Pro-tip… I was having an allergic reaction to the removal wipes. I started using baby oil instead. It takes off the adhesive from both the she-p and me and moisturizes the lady bits.

  4. Christine
    Christine says:

    Great article. I wish they made wetsuits with a pee flap held with Velcro so when you need to pee while diving just open the flap. That way we don’t have to ‘stew in our own juices’ when you just can’t hold it under water. This of course would only work for a wet suit.

  5. Jeffrey Bozanic
    Jeffrey Bozanic says:

    Great article, Shirley!
    I am glad I have a place to point my female students! I tried to include a couple of paragraphs on this topic in the last edition of the NOAA Diving Manual, but I was told that it was inappropriate and unnecessary… still too many men in diving, I guess!
    Thank you!


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